QUALITY IN A MAN, QUALITY IN A WOMAN

This is a world of spineless men and women with the devil's horns! 'Nuff said? Nope --- a bit needs to be said here. November Journaling Month's question is: "What is the quality you most like in a man? In a woman?" --- That brings me to a colossal expression of ideology! --- The quality I most like in a man is the presence of strong character and a SPINE! He should be fair, sound of mind, and fierce in honoring his word. This is coming from observing mamma's boys who become unfair to their wives, and wife worshippers who are unfair to their mothers. It also comes from gutless losers who cannot stand for what is right and cannot safeguard those under their protection. There's also the kind that changes colors like a chameleon to fake being part of specific social circle. In a woman, the quality I most like is tolerance of other women. Only a woman of strong moral fiber accepts the talents, skills, and abilities of others. Normally I feel the majority of women function like lionesses that mark their prairie and would kill to keep others of similar calibre enter their territory. Women are territorial. A social queen bee, for instance, often end up making life a nightmare for someone who gives her a good competition. I have yet to see a woman of strong character who does not get insecure to the extent of lunatic from another woman. I have yet to see a woman who mixes her friends circles together without worrying about which face she will put on with each different kind, someone who welcomes others with an open heart clean of jealousy and competition, someone who does not resort to bullying or groupism simply because she cannot stand another woman to share the limelight! 

THIS ENTRY IS WRITTEN FOR NOVEMBER JOURNALING MONTH 2018.